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andy-lazysheep:

kasunshine:

oh

ok

Asexuality is to sexuality as atheism is to theism. It’s not another type of thing, it’s the lack of it altogether. I honestly don’t think it belongs with LGBT. It’s just not the same issue.

I thought LGBTA was a safe space for all people of different sexual orientation . Cause, you know asexual is one of them.

And considering I grew up thinking I was broken and something was wrong with me until I got education outside school and figured out who I was with LGBTA sites and people. 

I grew up with family members saying they were disappointed I would never have children. You haven’t met the right person yet! You need therapy, there’s something wrong with you.  Everyone needs someone to be complete!  You just need to try harder!

I forced relationships because I believed those fucking lies. I let people coerce me into doing things deep down I know I didn’t want. And I still felt nothing. Men? Well no, I have close friends, had people I cared for but I feel nothing. Women? Anyone? Same fucking result. NOTHING.

I WISH I could have easily known what I was then. it would have saved me so much pain. 

I wish someone told me it  was okay to want a close relationship without anything sexual. That I didn’t need to fuck someone to make a relationship meaningful.   That a close platonic relationship is just as valid.

Because I AM SO FUCKING TIRED OF GATEKEEPERS DEEMING ME NOT IMPORTANT ENOUGH IN SAFE SPACES.

So you can kindly fuck off if you think excluding aces is ok because its “not the same issue.”